“ I should read, want the life, want to view the world, but these need a permit, the pass is not money certainly, however a kind of method, that is to say, I with what kind of method, ability approachs the life that I want quite, this ability is sensible. ”
The marriage of old husband and young wife that cross a state, a few minutes of romance are troubled a few minutes, often it is a long story. And place oneself among them Helen, one ever entered the current state girl that swings Shenzhen alone, it is however those who having an ordinary person to do not have is sober. She says the “ in knowing the life more abandons ” and “ to get ” .
The story of Helen and Bart, be in me off in those who interview, that is the travel that goes to kuala lumpur from Singapore cling to go up. Mondayish Bart of a day, on the seat that relies on a window, piece move mouth was asleep. In the motor sound of his snore and car, my side is worn personally, lying between a passageway, listen to across to sit outside Helen, tell about her this paragraph of exotic marriage is loved. There still are a lot of ears on the car listening, dan Hailun very calm.
She is a very extraordinary current state woman, see the life very appear, live look very importantly. Her heart theres is no lack of romantic, but she knows the “ in the life to abandon ” and “ to get ” more. Her life philosophy does not think to walk into marriage to make compromise with such condition. “ I should read, want the life, want to view the world, but these need a permit, the pass is not money certainly, however a kind of method, that is to say, I with what kind of method, ability approachs the life that I want quite, this ability is sensible. ”
She thinks, a lot of people are making highbrow dream, or the not reconciled to after disillusion, do not put issue oneself, rather such, be inferior to putting oneself a means of livilihood. “ this lives namely. She says ” . I think, perhaps go up in affection, helen is an adventurist. My may not accepts her a few viewpoint of value, but the disposition that I admire her forthright and sincere and brave life manner.
Helen says, she is being done marry to time definitely, understand very much in the heart, parents can object her, the elder sister can remain neutral. Because of Batebi she is big twenties, and she also knows, all friends that know her are met beside how to see her this paragraph of marriage that cross a state. “ but I am indifferent to. I say with them, my person of three years old, or else is married, marry do not go out. It is I get along with him, not be others gets along with him. People looks his anility, only I see his lovely place ……”
She lost love, he lost a wife
Helen is current state person, their home early came to Shenzhen, live in all the time south hill. Helen can tell a language of fluent another name for Guangdong Province and English. It is early 10 years ago, elder brother and elder sister became the home in succession, she had pressure insensibly. 5 years ago, she is patted with boy of a Hubei procrastinate, that boy comes Shenzhen before long, be full of poineering great ambition, but without economic base, she what drop into the love net borrows brushstroke money to help his start off up to family, did not think of to struggle a few years, boy miss the bus, feeling also fails, still let her carry debt on the back finally. Delayed youth of 4 years, gave her a painful and deep lesson: Feeling and money cannot mix into is together.
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